How to become Escort Boy

Regularly, men contact me to ask me how to become an Escort Boy, fantasizing about fucking lots of women and making money. Many imagine being able to do this as a hobby, discreetly, without imagining that there is real work upstream to make it a business. I will therefore explain to you how to become an Escort Boy, who the customer is, what commercial communication strategies to put in place to develop a real business, and what mistakes to avoid.

Step 1/5: create your website

Annual rental of the domain name €25 + server €115. Budget: €140.

Step 2/5: Buy a camera

The box must be capable of producing HD videos in 1080p (no need for 4K) and photos. The 50mm lens is perfect for obtaining a standard format. If you have a small budget, know that there are very good second-hand equipment at almost half the price on Le Bon Coin which will do just fine for getting started. Budget: €200 to €500.

Step 3/5: recruit models

Option 1, search for them via casting sites. Budget: €100 to €150 per session for nudes.
Option 2, select them from sex plans with whom you get along well. Budget: free.
In both cases, tell them that they will wear a Venetian mask to prevent identification.

Step 4/5: recruit a videographer photographer

Option 1, go to a professional. Budget: €150 to €300 per session. In this case, no need to buy a camera.
Option 2, recruit and train a friend. Budget: free. This is what I chose to start with.

Step 5/5: obtain video editing software

Purchase video editing software such as Adobe Premiere Pro. Budget: €20.
Purchase photo editing software such as Adobe Photoshop (not required). Budget: €20.
These discounted prices are accessible via sites like CDiscount or Rakuten.

Total budget to become an Escort Boy

To conclude on the investment to be allocated to create your Escort Boy activity, you will need a minimum budget of €600 and a maximum of €1100. To start a business, we can say that it is more than reasonable.

A good Escort Boy should not exclusively target female customers who represent only 10% of the market. It must target the customers of couples, which represents 90% of the market. Indeed, there are many men who want to offer an erotic performance to their wife either to watch as a cuckold, or to have a threesome where 2 men fuck the woman. So to do a real business and earn a lot of money, it is absolutely necessary to have commercial communication and services that are aimed at couples.

Rates and salary of the Escort Boy

The Escort Boy being supposed to be a Sex Expert and to have professional skills, he must be able to claim a rate between 200€ and 400€ per hour depending on the services. It is not recommended to set a price lower than 200€ because this would make the Escort look like an amateur and scare away the customer or attract one who easily cancels their appointment.

Be aware that the Escort Boy can also raise his salary up to 1,000€ per hour when the customer asks for something rarer requiring more skills. But usually, the average rate for an Escort Boy is around 300€ per hour. The best thing is to offer different services with different prices in order to be able to reach the most modest audiences as well as the wealthiest.

When a good address book has been built up, the salary of the Escort Boy usually reaches between 3,000€ and 6,000€ monthly and sometimes more depending on certain specific months of the year.

In addition, hotel costs as well as those of long-distance travel (plane, train, or taxi) are the responsibility of the customer. The Escort is there to make money, not spend it.

The Escort Boy does not lower his prices if the customer requests it

Rare are the times when the customer tries to negotiate the Escort’s prices down, but when this happens, the Escort must never accept. If the customer wants a professional with superior quality, they must agree to pay the price indicated at least for the first appointment. Once the Escort knows the environment of the customer and has judged their honesty or dishonesty regarding their financial situation, they can choose whether or not to make a commercial gesture for future appointments.

Cities to target to make money

Of course, the success of the professional will also depend on the geographical area in which he is located. As much as the Escort Boy will make a lot of money if it is located near a rich and touristy agglomeration like Paris or Cannes, that conversely it will do little or no business if it is located in the middle of a rural area, without potential wealthy customer or tourists.

The work of Escort Boy is aimed at the long term. Usually, there is a first year of heating where the Escort makes a lot of rookie mistakes and hinders customer loyalty. Financially, the first year is not interesting. So, it will be interesting for the Escort that he has another main activity on the side that allows him a secure and stable remuneration. When he becomes more seasoned in the second year, there he begins to build customer loyalty and build up an address book. It is only after 2 years that the real business is set up with a solid address book, a loyal customer, a complete weekly agenda, an international customer, etc. And at that time, the Escort can make it his main activity.

Beauty and attractiveness of the Escort Boy

Being an Escort Boy for women requires having a minimum of physical attractiveness but whose criteria are absolutely not beauty or muscles but are strength and health. As I mentioned in my article about the ineffectiveness of beauty attraction for men, an Escort Boy must not highlight the superficial such as the beauty of the body but must highlight the sexual performance which is the first objective of the future customer. And performance doesn’t translate into a nice haircut, a shaved body or a bodybuilder.

The image of sexual performance translates into a healthy body, that is to say neither too thin nor overweight, which will be synonymous for the customer with a functional body for a virile fuck. And regarding virility, the customer must also see it in your attitude. This is the sales image that must be shown to customers through photos or videos on a website and in appointments.

Escort Boy cock size

Contrary to what some men imagine, the Escort Boy does not need to have a big cock to attract female customers. As I often say, sexual performance has no connection with the size of the penis and its number of centimeters. Sexual performance is characterized by knowledge and mastery of all techniques concerning endurance, erection, pleasure and orgasms.

A mistake very often made by amateur Escort Boys is to communicate by acting as gentlemen, lovers, romantics. Many of them present themselves in photos in costume, with a rose in their hands, or use verbal communication that is too soft, too considerate, even poetic.

Except that 90% of the services ordered by the female customer are hard, and that the customers abandon everything that concerns softness and romanticism because they want to be doubled over and end up sore. So to meet customer expectations as closely as possible, it will be necessary to favor a more adventurous dress code, a more manly look, more direct communication and services that do not hesitate to go from hot to very hard.

Appointment scheduling and filter

To begin, women search online for the professional they want. Then they contact them either by phone, text message, or email. There is rarely word of mouth, because most want to remain discreet about this type of adventure.

During this first contact, the professional will establish a filter in order to eliminate all customers likely to pose a problem on the day of the appointment. To do this, he analyzes the behavior of his interlocutors as much as possible via their verbal or written communication. He eliminates all potential customers who demonstrate authoritarianism or arrogance. He eliminates all those whose words are considered incoherent or whose speech speed is abnormally too slow or too fast, because this could reflect either a problem with mental faculties or excessive consumption of alcohol or narcotics. It also eliminates all the weather vanes who constantly change the date or time of their appointment, because this breaks the schedule and prevents serious appointments from happening. It eliminates all those who demand a multitude of whims for their appointment, because these women are always problematic during the sessions. And finally, it eliminates all those who indicate that they are in a relationship and want to fuck at home while their partner is away.

Of all the requests, about 25% are eliminated. As for the others, they are validated after checking the respective availabilities and confirming the address of the meeting place.

Introduction

The first thing the professional does when meeting his customer is to put her at ease by talking with her. He can ask her if she lives here or if she is passing through for vacation or business, how she met him, etc. Then very quickly, the conversation flows naturally.

Ask the woman what intensity she wants

Once the introductions are over, it will be necessary to ask the customer what formula she wants. Does she want something soft, dynamic, or based on domination? This is the only information the professional needs to guide the session. This is followed by the payment, the amount of which will be proportional to the intensity she has chosen.

Musical playlist

The last step before the fuck will be to prepare a musical atmosphere whose rhythm of the music will be adapted to the rhythm of the fuck she has chosen. FYI, each playlist is designed to last 1 hour, which will allow you to know at the end of the playlist that an hour has passed and that the session is over. It’s better than watching the time on a watch or an alarm clock where the customer would feel like she’s being timed.

Hot undressing

Concerning the undressing part, it’s up to the professional to undress the customer. Women like men who take the initiative. So you have to be creative and know how to undress them completely or partially in a hot way.

Condoms

The professional always comes with his condoms and only uses his own. He never accepts those that a customer could offer him in order to avoid a possible condom pierced with a needle so that the woman gets pregnant, or a condom whose size is not suitable.

90% of customers want rough sex

This may seem surprising but 90% of customers, young or old, all ask for wild, dynamic, bestial, and long-lasting sex. They want to feel the strength of a man and feel dominated. At the end of the session, they must have sweated, be out of breath, had one or more orgasms, and the next day they must have aches. If you do not meet these criteria, you are fired, and there is never a second chance. If these women decide to pay for sex, instead of fucking for free with any man, it is to have a superior performance to other men. Consequently, they are uncompromising on the level of performance.

10% of customers want gentleness

Much smaller, only 10% of women ask for services with gentleness, or sensuality. Usually, these are women with a reserved profile, a little shy.

How to know what a woman likes or not?

The professional does not have a month, a week, or a day to understand how his customer’s body works, and he cannot afford to ask the woman what she likes or not as a technique or position. As a professional, he is supposed to be an Expert and know everything. He must therefore never ask her customer technical questions under penalty of passing for a beginner and being fired at the end of the first appointment.

The professional only has 1 hour in front of him, and must discover from the first 5 minutes how she takes pleasure in order to adapt his fucking techniques for the remaining time. To do this, he will have to demonstrate speed of observation and adaptation. He will quickly test 3 different stimulations, one clitoral, one vaginal, and one anal, in order to know if all of them excite her or not, and what she prefers. And depending on the woman’s reactions, he will direct his fingering and fucking techniques, favor or eliminate certain angles of penetration, do anal or not, etc. Of course, the customer does not realize these different tests and analyses, because they are carried out naturally and in the heat of the moment.

The customer does not need to be beautiful

Whether the customer is beautiful or ugly, the professional will have to give the maximum. The customer pays for a service so it is necessary to offer her value for her money. From a mechanical point of view, if the woman is not attractive enough, the professional will only have to focus on another source of excitement than beauty to trigger and maintain the erection.

The customer does not need to know how to fuck

If the customer does not know how to fuck or only averagely, the professional will never tell her and will never show dissatisfaction. He will always give her the impression that she is the best. And if she asks what her level is, he will indicate the points on which to improve by showing her how. Thus, the customer is always satisfied.

Women’s stamina

Women’s stamina for fucking will vary according to the intensity of the rhythm that the man will use. If they have chosen a soft formula, they can fuck for 40 minutes without stopping. But if they have chosen a hard formula, their stamina reduces enormously to reach 20 minutes on average. They can then resume, but with mandatory breaks.

End of session

The professional ends the session, either on the woman’s last orgasm, or by completely exhausting her until she gives up.

On the man’s side, he will have the choice, either to ejaculate by synchronizing with the woman’s orgasm, or to be jerked off, because women also like to see a man ejaculate with their own eyes. Then there is also a minority of women who after having enjoyed themselves do not give a damn about the man’s pleasure and do not make him ejaculate.

However, if the professional has many appointments in the same day, he will only ejaculate for the last customer and will simulate ejaculation in the condom for the previous ones. This management of the frequency of ejaculation will allow the professional to never have a drop in energy and therefore to maintain an erection always at the top for the whole day. Obviously this technique involves controlling your endurance.

To end the session peacefully, everyone breathes and relaxes for 5 minutes, lying on the bed, while chatting. Once the time has come, the sex worker gets dressed again, and collects all his used condoms whether there has been ejaculation or not in order to leave no trace of his passage and to avoid any possible theft of used condoms. He takes back all his things, checks to make sure he has not forgotten anything, and wishes his customer a pleasant day.

The Escort Boy must perform

The professional Escort Boy must be able: to fuck every day, to fuck women both pretty and ugly, to fuck in the presence of another man who will watch or participate in a threesome, to control his erection and endurance, to provide pleasure and orgasms without necessarily having any in return, to impress his female customer during sex, and to always show that she is great even if she is not.

Regardless of the beauty or the performance of the customer, she pays and must have a performance worth her money. The customer is Queen, as long as it is respectful.

The Escort Boy must remain professional

The job of Escort Boy also requires knowing how to keep confidentiality about his customer, never contacting them outside of making an appointment, never interfering in the sentimental relations within a couple of customers, nor to fall in love with each of his customers.

No fucking without a condom

The Escort Boy fucks a lot with lots of different women every week, and this for months, and years. Statistically, he will necessarily meet women infected with any sexual disease. So to avoid any risk to his health and guarantee that of his customer, he should never have unprotected sex. As for oral foreplay such as fellatio or cunnilingus, as it sucks with a sensation-level condom for both the Escort and the customer, it is more interesting to eliminate them from the repertoire and compensate with manual techniques. Note that the use of condoms also prevents any risk of customers becoming pregnant.

No physical violence

This may surprise some or make others smile, but he always has special requests from customers for performances that are sometimes more brutal than usual. For security reasons, the Escort must always refuse to hit, strangle in a strong way, simulate a rape or undertake an action that would leave bodily marks of violence on the body of his customer. As a good salesman, when the Escort cannot meet a demand, he will then have to offer an equally dynamic and wild alternative but with limits and without visible trace. He can only count on him to define the limits because the customer will never have any. Then remember this, a disgruntled customer is better than a disgruntled judge.

No fucking at the home of a couple customer

All requests to travel to the home of a woman who indicates that she is married and cheating on her spouse are refused so that the latter does not surprise them accidentally. You should know that the more the couple is financially well off, the more likely it is that there will be surveillance cameras within the home itself. And I know that some spouses occasionally monitor their wives with this device.

A customer experienced this by having a lover come to her house, and the husband who had been monitoring with cameras from his job showed up, which led to a fight, a lawsuit, and a divorce. To avoid this kind of problem, an alternative is offered to the customer by suggesting that she book a hotel room.

Detect and eliminate false majors

Another issue to consider are underage girls posing as young adult women between the ages of 20 and 23. These young girls either want to experiment with sex with a pro or trick and blackmail an adult into extorting money from them. In this case, the request for presentation of an identity document will make it possible to sort out the real and false majors.

No fucking near children

Another fundamental rule is to refuse any sex if children are present in another room. Ethical question that some customers obviously do not share.

No fucking if the customer seems drunk or drugged

Always to ensure his safety, the professional will have to cancel his fucking session if he notices on the spot that his customer is drunk or under the influence of drugs. Since the customer no longer has control and has impaired reasoning, this can quickly degenerate and turn against the professional. It’s a ticking time bomb. So we pretend a phone call, and an emergency that forces us to turn around. This little diplomatic lie defuses an unstable situation.

No pair

During his career, the Escort Boy will be regularly solicited either by Escort Girls so that they can work in pairs with, or by customers to obtain an Escort Girl. In both cases, you must neither agree to work with another person, nor transmit the contact of a professional for security reasons with the legislation. By working independently, the Escort Boy does not risk anything legally. But by making another person work directly or indirectly, this can be considered by the courts as pimping. And there the risks are great.

Do not consume any food offered by customers

When the professional goes on an appointment, he meets new people he knows nothing about and does not know if their intentions are good or bad. Therefore, he will decline any drink and food that is offered to him to consume on site in order to avoid any risk of being drugged via booby-trapped food.

Family life and friends

By being publicly exposed on the internet, the Escort Boy must expect his family or his circle of friends to be aware of his activity. So the Escort Boy has the choice between either announcing his activity to his entourage when the moment seems good to him, or hiding it but being ready to assume if the entourage discovers it.

Love life

Contrary to what many people might believe, the profession of Escort Boy is absolutely not an obstacle to maintaining a serious relationship with a woman or having adventures. However, 2 conditions are necessary to maintain a relationship: openness and communication. The Escort Boy must announce his job before even starting a relationship with a woman. He must fully assume his status and communicate the fact that it is a business, a professional activity and that there is nothing personal or sentimental.

A woman’s only fear is that the Escort Boy will fall in love with a customer. But if he dispels this fear by communicating on this subject and clearly explaining that it is only professional, then things are clear and there is never any obstacle or problem with women.

Moreover, in the context of a couple relationship, the Escort Boy must manage his energy level and have a rigorous lifestyle like an athlete in order to ensure that he always has enough strength to sexually satisfy his customers and his companion.

Now you know everything about how to become an Escort Boy for women and make it a main and lucrative activity. To succeed, it is absolutely necessary to carry out all the technical and communication work upstream. As a priority, it is necessary to create a website, to produce videos presenting the Escort with an uncovered face and accompanied by female models, as well as to have specific communication for couples. Once the computer part is finished, you have to reach a high level of performance, and impose limits on yourself and on the customers. These are all the keys to success.