Why do some women ask men to rape them?

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Everyone knows that rape is a traumatic event for women who have experienced it. But paradoxically, there is also a minority of women who express to men their desire to be raped. So we will elucidate what may seem like a contradiction. Having fucked with a little over a thousand women, it turns out that I met 3 women who asked me to rape them and to whom I refused their request for personal reasons and security. The quantity may seem insignificant, nevertheless on the thousand it represents a ratio of 0.3%. And if you widen this ratio to the total number of women in France is 34.6 million, it is 103 800 women who fantasize about being raped. And there, the number is already immediately more important. From the few subjects who asked me to violate them, I noticed two different objectives. The first being to realize a fantasy in women, and the second being for the woman to be able to trap a man.


Among the women with whom I discussed their fantasy of rape, I observed that the term rape was misused. They use this word, but have a different perception of true rape with violence. In other words, their definition of rape definition is wrong because it sets limits. They define it rather as a desire for a balance of power, a domination of the man, a total subjection of the woman, dynamism, a savage side, bestial, etc.

As I found that their definition of rape was incomplete because it was missing its constraints, I asked them if they would agree to be fucked by:
– a guy who does not like them,
a man who threatens them with a weapon,
– a stranger who does not use a condom,
– a man who puts them in a coma,
– a man she will not be sure to live or die in the next few minutes.
In short, women’s responses to all these questions were NO.

Therefore, their fantasy of rape is not that of real rape, and is closer to a simple will of submission but safely, with a man who pleases them, and only in the conditions that suit them.

Finally, it exactly meets the expectations of a public seeking thrills but provided they are safe. In the cinema, the public wants to be scared with scary films as long as it is safe in its chair. Same for battle rooms, some of which try to attract an audience by telling them that they will practice a combat sport safely. The fantasy of rape is ultimately in the same lineage. This category of women is looking for thrills while being comfortable and safe.


It should be known that the fantasy of rape in women can also be a bait to trap men. Some women will incite the man to the violence to have traces on the body, then will scream and proste sufficiently strong so that the neighborhood turns into future witness having heard a protest.

Then comes 2 possibilities:
– On the one hand, you have women who want to blackmail the man and ask him for money by threatening to file a complaint with the police.
– Then you have on the other side, women who will put the man in jail to get rid of it either for personal reasons, or because it was sponsored by a third person.

In any case, it will be almost impossible for the man to prove to justice that it was a simulation with a common accord with the woman and not a real rape with threat and constraint.


Regarding men, when a woman expresses her fantasy of being raped, I strongly advise against doing so. You would expose yourself to serious problems. And if in spite of everything you decide to go in this way, do not leave any trace of violence on the woman’s body. Precautionary principle.

As for the women who express this fantasy, pay close attention to the consequences that this may have. It can quickly slip if the man has a more violent vision of rape than yours, and you have not agreed beforehand on certain rules to respect or your limits. Rather say that you love something wild, bestial, unexpected, but avoid using the term rape.

Now that everything is clear, I wish you all… good fuck!