Making sex the 1st night and serious relationship

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Here is a question that women ask themselves very often when they meet a new partner, and that they are in the process of having a serious relationship. Can they sleep the first night or should they wait? Let’s see if the time of abstinence affects the strength of a relationship.

The first mistake that all women make is to imagine that the strength of a relationship will be proportional to the time of abstinence. If your partner is immature, alcoholic, mentally unstable, or whatever, whether you fuck on the 1st night, in 1 month, or in 1 year, either your relationship will break or it will be completely chaotic. As a result, the bedtime criterion has no impact on the future strength of a couple.

ELIMINATE MEN WITH OVERALL DEFECTS

If you are looking for a stable and lasting relationship, the first thing to do is look for the faults of your suitor. Women too often focus on the qualities of a man, but it is the defects that cause problems in a couple, never the qualities. Therefore, I advise you to eliminate all pretenders who have too great defects that can affect the stability of a couple.

Here is a list of defects contrary to a stable relationship:
– an addiction to alcohol, drugs, gambling, video games, television…
– repeated debts,
– behavioral problems such as violence, aggression, perversity, domination, lies, immaturity, laziness, chronic infidelity…
– a free time to devote yourself insufficient,
– children of several different women,
– a social positioning, a culture or a religion very different from yours.

Once the first selection is over, there you can focus on the remaining contenders and their qualities.

CONCLUSION

Whether you make love the first night, in a month, or in a year, only criteria such as common moral values, a balanced behavior of your partner, and compatibility with in-laws will have an impact on the sustainability and the longevity of your couple. These criteria eliminate many men, but in return also greatly increase the chances of building a strong, lasting, and healthy relationship with the remaining men.