How to give the best blowjob

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On the one hand, there are women who wonder why blowjob is good or not. And on the other hand, there are those who know some techniques but ignore many others. So, here are my professional sex advice for women who want to learn how to give the best blowjob to a man. You will discover the tips and secrets of these famous oral techniques to give maximum pleasure.

WHY DOES BLOWJOB PROVIDE PLEASURE?

Knowing what gives pleasure is the basis for giving it. Based on my personal sexual experiences and women I have interviewed, my observation is that less than 5% of women master the blowjob. All of them have only partial knowledge of the techniques and factors that provide pleasure. When I ask them what gives pleasure during blowjob, I only get false answers like: tongue, mouth, teeth, or others. In this part, I will teach you the fundamentals that are common to all men.

First of all, what gives pleasure is the temperature. To be more precise, it is the contrast between the warmth of the woman’s mouth and the warmth of the cock. The more temperature difference between the two, the better sensations you create. Hence, less contrast gives less sensation. To create a temperature difference, women will have to work 3 factors simultaneously: depth, speed, and pressure.

THE 3 FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLES

To create a temperature differential and achieve the best blowjob, women will have to work 3 factors simultaneously: depth, speed, and pressure.

The depth

The deeper the woman will perform blowjob, the more her mouth will accentuate the stimulation surface of the cock, thus promoting more sensations. On the contrary, the less deep she will perform the blowjob, the less she will stimulate the surface area, which reduces the sensations. It’s pure bio-mechanical.

The speed

The faster the friction of the woman’s mouth is, the more intense the sensations in the man are. However, the slower the friction speed is, the lighter the sensations are.

The pressure of the mouth

The more pressure the mouth puts on, the more sensations it offers to humans. In contrast, the lighter the mouth is, the weaker the sensations are. But be aware, pressure does not mean putting your teeth in. Pressure is with the lips, not the teeth.

REGULATE EXCITATION

Moreover, being an Expert in blowjob does not mean knowing only how to provide the maximum sensations. It also means knowing how to reduce the effects of blowjob to regulate human excitement if man has difficulty to be enduring or control his ejaculation. To regulate his excitement, it will be simply enough for the woman to decrease depth, speed, and pressure. Understand this well, you will only be an expert when you have full control over your partner’s ejaculation.

WHAT WOMEN SHOULD NOT DO

Do not suck when putting your teeth in

Women must absolutely avoid putting their teeth in when they suck. A woman who puts her teeth in is a disaster. It irritates the flesh after only few minutes. Not only it is not pleasant, but it also gives pain instead. If a man develops pain, it can also force him to reduce the fucking time afterward. So be careful with that.

Do not suck after brushing your teeth

Do not suck a man after brushing your teeth. Even after rinsing your mouth at the end of brushing, you may burn his dick with the menthol still in your mouth. It is an anecdote that I experienced twice after a meal. I didn’t understand at the time why it was burning me. I had to interrupt the one who was sucking my cock in an emergency, and rinse my dick under water for few minutes to make this burning sensation disappears. And even when it was reduced, it easily stayed for about 10 minutes.

Avoid sucking in the shower

When women suck their partners in the shower, few men tell them, to avoid offending them, that they feel almost no sensation even if they have a hard-on. It comes back to this whole temperature thing. Under a hot shower, the water will bring heat to the dick. And the problem is that the man will no longer differentiate the heat from the water, from the one of the mouth of the woman who sucks it, because the temperatures will be equivalent. The contrast between the two will be insufficient to create sensations. I advise women to suck the guy after the shower or to slightly cool his dick with a little cold water to create a temperature contrast again.

MORE IN MY FORMATION

To become an expert in blowjob and get a maximum of sensations, discover the full range of techniques and different ways to ejaculate a man in my book The Art of Fucking (available in digital version)

What level do women think they have about blowjob? Do they know what gives pleasure to a man? In what unusual place have they already blowjob? You will discover everything in my street interview video.

My personal observation with women

For those who follow me on Snapchat, you have seen that I have had many partners (a little over a thousand). And among these, very few are comfortable with the mastery of blowjob.

– Some do not want to do fellatio because they say they themselves are zero, and are really afraid of not giving pleasure to the man and he has a negative face to it.
– Some women only know one way to suck when there are more ways to do it.
– Others only use their mouths without knowing that they can also associate their hands.
– Others still suck too lightly and do not provide any sensations.
– Some women suck on 4 cm long and do not provide any new sensations.