How to excite a man

Reading time: 5 min

As I have seen, women also need tips to improve sex level. From my experience, I saw women fucking in the darkness, putting teeth when they suck, jerking off a cock with the fingertips as if it were porcelain, making the starfish, mute, screaming for the whole city to hear, fuck, jerk off or suck in a linear way without any change of pace. Doing it for a man is the worst of the worst. It is contrary to excitement. So if you find yourself in one or more of these situations, here are my Expert tips to improve you.


To do: To begin, take your cock firmly in your hand. You must know that the warmth of the hand creates a great sensation that makes you bend even more. So the heat will be more easily transmitted if you grab a dick with a complete hand than just the fingertips. Then you have to move back and forth with a maximum amplitude from the very top, towards the lowest possible (without hurting the brake while going down). Level speed, we can go slowly only if the pressure and amplitude are sufficient. But then, you have to move up a gear otherwise it’s boredom and you still can not make it ejaculate by going slowly. To make it enjoy, it will increase speed.

The top: A good handjob is summarized by Pressure, Amplitude and Rapidity.

Not to do: I too often tend to tell girls to put more pressure. To wank with the fingertips is like being wanked by the wind, must forget. Just masturbate the top of the cock or the bottom is just as no one so we stop this massacre.


To do: When you suck, it is the heat of your mouth that gives this sensation unequaled so, as for the handjob, give amplitude to your movement to increase the surface of sensations in your partner. And vary the pace. Linear is boredom. For more details, I invite you to read my special article to learn how to give the best blowjob.

The best: combine blowjob and handjob at the same time.

Not to do: The dick is not like a Cornetto, put teeth is bad, like sucking as the first 3 cm of the dick. To correct absolutely. Do not brush your teeth 5 min before sucking your partner. The menthol toothpaste that stays in the mouth burns the dick. I tell you that because it happened to me.


To do: Make the man enjoy sexily. With cumshot in the mouth. If you want to swallow sperm, it will add excitement. Otherwise spit it out but always in a sexy or provocative way. And for those who do not ejaculate in the mouth you can do it on any part of your body: face, breasts, buttocks … Always end up being exciting. And for those who have done an ejaculation on the body, you can also extend the excitement of the man by spreading sperm on you or caressing you sex or both at the same time. Everything must be exciting from beginning to end.

Not to do: for those who enjoy in the mouth, do not put his hand in front of the mouth and run to the bathroom to spit sperm as if we were going to vomit. It’s the opposite of the sexy. Do not stop the excitement brutally after ejaculation.

The top: to ejaculate in the butcher and swallow by throwing a look sizzling and provocative.


To do: Move, the fuck is a matter of movement, communication and synchronization between the bodies. Do it with envy and passion. Put your body forward by innovating in hot positions that show your sex or your buttocks.

The top: At one point, spread your buttocks with your hands during the fuck. This will send a very exciting sign that you want more. Surprise your guy by heating him when he does not expect it. And change environment, sex is not limited to the room. Do it in every room of your apartment.

Not to do: Pinch our nipples to stimulate them. We do not have breasts but pecs. So I tell you right now, you will never stimulate anything by touching our nipples. At best it makes us laugh, at worst it cuts our excitement. Make your starfish, its starfish. It’s so bad that even in the seafood section we do not serve it. A man still preferred to masturbate than to have a woman motionless like a statue. Shout like a sick person during the antics. If the man thinks of the excessive noise caused to the neighbors, his thought will pass from you to the neighbors and consequently his excitement as his erection risks going away but without you. Be silent like a carp. It does not excite silence a lot. Do only one or two positions and always the same. And here is the linear side that does not excite.


To do: Always put enough light so that the man can see because his excitement passes through the visual and good visibility of the show.

The top: Put a mirror in your room that both admire your antics from a new angle.

Not to do: Forbidden to fuck in the dark or in the dark. The excitement passing through the visual, if we remove the visual, we remove the excitement. It’s like watching porn without the image. It sucks. And if you put a soft light, make it not darkness either. The more the man sees, the better.


To do: Wear rather a sexy lingerie, a garter belt, etc. And only put them occasionally. If you put them all the time it will be routine and therefore more exciting.

The best: Fuck from time to time dressed or in lingerie. It’s more exciting dressed than naked.

Not to do: It sounds obvious and yet I have seen these mistakes. Avoid the rules of the day, the granny’s panties or the Snoopy panties or mismatched sets. Same for pornic cartoon outfits, naughty nurse, police or other. Must stop that. Carnival is more fun than anything else.


Whether you wank, suck or fuck, vary the rhythm, give amplitude to your movements. Express your pleasure by the gestures of your body and by the sounds emitted by your mouth. Be sexy and scorching from start to finish and all in the light. With all that, you are gone to give a maximum of pleasure. Moreover, if you wish to reach the level of Femme Fatale, I invite you to get my book who called The Art of Fucking.